MemorialDayWeekEnd2021
from
SituationalAssessmentTemplate2017
Introduction/Definition/etc
A HoliDay of sorts,
depending upon what/who you are/
were/will be/ etc...
So like Mother'sDay
if the crowd trashes your kitchen,
and you're the local mom,
might be a mess left over,
and how to deal with that...
Father's Day, similar,
and military, maybe never
clean up their messes...
Partially because their mess
is from politicians, and despite
the clean the bathroom with
a toothbrush type environments
of boot camp media,
once the shit hits the fan,
and less polite, FOOBAR,
etc, not much left,
and possibly dangerous to do
so, combined with leave none
behind, and recent PitBurns
including losing a Biden kid
to that, and some more topical
things, including the mundane...
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So a wide array of stuff from above
introduction, it could go wide,
or just stop here...
Frequent questions to those who
have served are things like
how many did you kill,
and my favorite answer would probably
be +1: You for asking...
Don't Ask, Don't Tell is something else,
but a lot of things people probably did,
can't say, in their lifetimes,
and perhaps longer....
Rules and laws may have changed,
9/11 effecting some, time of cold war,
to Iran/Iraq, etc...
Making yourself a target isn't wise,
wearing a uniform is not all of it,
and some are Velcro like on,
though makes little sense
to remove making noise to me,
in some sort of covert way...
Time off/ unstructured time is difficult
for some, and recently viewing a
AutismExPlainedTeachAbleCon2020
Loneliness video, and commenting on that,
OnePercentOfficeAccess2012
if military is elite, 1Percenters
may be the window into seeing that,
so few would be accepted, and any
reason for rejecting
I started my life in a time of VietNam,
too young to serve but the TV images
of it, and the protests, etc didn't make
one want to join up, some probably did,
but it was a Draft time too,
Draft Card, Burning them and going to
Canada, etc...
Coming from a family who did serve,
not to serve would be a disgrace/
disHonor and speaking against/
even writing against the efforts and
losses would be similar, but those people
aren't around to defend themselves,
despite they defending our way of life,
which is not beyond reproach, imnsho...
About enlistment/ commission age,
i had already done damage to myself,
by mistake, blowing out an eardrum,
eyesight, and other features would
have likely disqualified me from regular
service, basic and being told what to do,
with an alcoholic/ abusive upbringing,
in that Jekyl/ Hyde sort of way,
while denying it's a problem,
as when someone is drinking
they are likely feeling good,
and not seeing negative effects
on those around them...
Sadly, i'm seeing that in
SailingTubers2021
SVDelos2018
the young child, small and
ignored/ loud drunk adults,
perhaps typical of sailing
seems scared, rejected,
and not spoken up for,
while not really my place,
also it is my place,
anytime the child's name is mentioned
was used for a drinking game on a Live
Chat, and i said no ETOH and left,
while the button changed to send money
from return/send...
Is that a trap?
I'm only one and they have many
most would not want to hear of their
drinking and the effects of same,
the denial is strong,
and diagnosing people based on video
even writing is difficult and not recommended
anyways...
But just from what is presented,
best i can do is probably boycott,
Send us a Beer, marketing has it's
problems, those who don't and/or
trained in Substance Abuse
likely would be a conflict of interest/
ethics problem, and workarounds also
similar, supporting a habit/ addiction,
marketing and on to AwareNess
as 12Step calls it some places...
You see i stopped drinking myself
when asking others to stop
see hot difficult it is,
not be total hypocrit (sp?)
I still have problems with
DiJon mustard, which contains
Wine,
and watching ingredients of stuff,
Vanilla extract is frequently
in alcohol and even toothpaste,
Tom's of Maine you'd think
with all the marketing it would be
alcohol chemical free, but looking
at the ingredients list, not so,
Xylitol, Sorbitol, those are alcoholized
fake sugars, besides being sugar
substitutes, does kind of a double
whammy on the body, as fake sugar,
and using alcoholizing to make it fake,
so tricking the body, maybe not the mind,
but that could go on a while,
Glycemic Index some places call it,,
DiaBetes and other issues in there
besides substance abuse...
Recently reading of Prostitutes Anonymous
not generically more Sex Workers Anonymous
and somehow tied to the Iran Contra
stuff, according to the founder,
and they use full names,
for their modification(s) of
AA's 12Steps
and other stuff,
but i digress further...
One thing that fills some unstructured
time, is doing Recovery, 12Step of otherwise...
Working on BiCycling, etc...
MotorCycling
BakingStallingDraggingRollingThunder2016
BambisOutToGetMeAndSnakesInTheStore2011
Self Care
Criticizing on the web,
that's good just about anytime,
even myself...
Making progress on stuff put up
here previously...
The last posting
SWAGRideGamify2021
is an Idear, but not in the title/
WebPage name...
Developing that might help...
CyberBullying2020
continues but some are going
HyBrid, blended meetings that
are both online and in person,
some it seems were planning
on Memorial Day for lifting restrictions
on Masks, Vaccinate or Mask
larger gathering limits, in larger meetings
than i usually used to do,
50-60 max, online can hit that,
easily, but the dynamics of a large
meeting, especially online
can change, Zoom
I upgraded my Linux Zoom client,
and have been let in late to a lot of them,
and sometimes not at all,
I'd like to try the recording function,
and know it's a priv like ScreenSharing
the Host needs to allow/ turn on,
on the other side of it, screen save
is not something that is turned off,
someone flashes up a place to send
money, through electronic means,
and i was slow on the capture
and got the next person's face
by mistake, and how to write down,
save things on a client that doesn't
have a Save Chat function
which is basically the clipboard
in a face to face meeting,
things intended to be saved
though i use it more like a
BackChannel
which i need to learn more about,
I talk back to the machine,
and some may not like it,
I've had ideas of how ot make
better hybrid meetings,
but largely my ideas
and a lot what i say hasn't
been even heard, i was yelling
it seemed to me into the
microphone
when i even use voice, wearing headphones
it's annoying and likely not judging volume
very well, louder for those who aren't
hearing the other side, and like headphones
earbuds on a bus, you may overhear loud
volume music/ etc, of someone sitting next
to you, even those in the back of the bus
with headsets, it's loud enough to hear,
not sure decibels, or if the person is deaf
to start with, but like deaf can sometimes
feel the vibration, like Hello VietNam
old RobinFlewTheCoup2014
radio DJ bit,
Play it Loud...
Like artillery, deaf from shelling,
local explosions, etc...
One idea is/ was to make a
SmartPhone into a DumbMic
and record locally too,
and some other features,
in a blended meeting and other situations
yet unspecified, especially with sharing
devices, would have to wipe down a
traditional studio microphone
even cordless, BlueTooth,
but each person's smartphone
if done well, made an app,
or HTTP into a LocalHost
audio mixer/ server
and some BlackBox stuff
to be worked out,
jackd
streams
and beginning and ending
plus recording, as can record
your own, and start and stop
when you determine,
if others stay quiet and don't
interrupt then only you recorded
and within normal parameters
even for 12Step (mostly)...
Not that the quality /
self _grandizing /
Selfie like culture
but say someone couldn't make it,
and checking / not recreating all
your shares, might be good some
says/ bad/ less than desirable others...
Volume control,
others around you need to be
quiet, the tech person needs
to get a list of people doing that,
say their MAC/ IP addresses
and first name, last initial,
(maybe make a QRCode of the server
for them to scan on entry
and collect quickly &
easily that way, etc...)
likely saving between weekly meetings/
flushing for privacy or move to another
environment, (save audio of self to own SD
card, how to save with neighboring
say i forgot mine can you hold your device
out as mic for me, and send to me later/
here's a SD/ only you are on it,
not backed up, etc)
and this may have been done before/
already, finding research is interesting
but DIY creating my own
and designing things, software in particular
using existing skills,
say i did the Android app,
and others did the Mac/iOS/iPhone
and Black/CrackBerry,
some things likely already exist,
but researching them makes a clean
room creation process difficult
and can be copyright/left
licensing/ reverse engineering problem(s)...
to do things OpenSource,
OpenHardWare,
it's better not to look it up....
Not Joy in not finishing projects,
even self imposed ones to learn
tech skills...
One of my problems is i've created
so many, and not finished
like any, iirc, some are more time
limited, going to
AVeteransSonLaughsAndSpitsAtMe2011
this month/ 28-30 day training
intended for medical,
and writing up that
had several follow on things
HippieClownCamp2011
the PDF
Audio processing/ uploaded
audio file(s) of my "presentation"/
final, and getting sick on the way
back/ there and continuing,
allergies stress, finals, etc,
but not for credit as not a student,
that was before
WeldingBasics2013
community college Associates
level classes and physical skill
as well as intellectual/ book learning...
Munged2017
MungedMetaData2017
...
2020BreadsPlus.ods
MungedDataReasoning2020
etc
Many people probably have cookouts,
eating out, parties/ picnics/ get ToGetHers,
on holiday weekend(s), not sure how
that goes with PanDemic, even some lifted,
not all the same household,
so eating would be past time/ HoliDay
typical activity, unStructuredTime filler....
And may other things here,
could use some buffing up,
but i've been up watching
SailingTubers2021
not listed here
a motorboat, outboards what
crossed the Atlantic,
lots of extra gas/ oil,
some floating airbags added,
he fell off, and luckily
the other person woke and
did a wide circle and went
back for him,
SVBoraBora did a sail of someone
elses' boat/ delivery from NY to
IreLand and was much less
drunk and disorderly much less
fund raising while likely spending
on drinking, etc
I can like the other parts of the project/
person, while not the drinking/ drugging, etc...
Party central seems to go with Boating,
even in the 1970's early 1980's
before i was even old enough to really
drink, iirc, 16/18 years old,
if could drive, could drink
but changed to 21 for a lot of stuff,
hard liquor and where you were,
but locally the sailing magazine
is sponsored by Mt. Gay Rum
and even online FriDay HappyHours
"what are you drinking?"
and other problems of can't show on
TV, but InFluencers and covert
marketing techniques,
as bad if not worse than smoking
back in the day and currently...
Their aren't even Boating and Drinking
is Dangerous warnings on the Media/
containers/ etc...
So lots of things to do,
many more than i have energy
for, and few actually even considered,
now that the weekend is basically over
part way through say, the 3rd day...
(assuming start on FriDay /post Noon/PM)
Modified Text
What's Missing?
What Can Be Found?
What Can Not Be Found?
How To Analyze?
Lenses
Noob
Kid(s)
Dis/Dys/Diss/Hiss/etc
General Public
Any HoliDay is a Good HoliDay
better than being at $Work
no?
Assumptions
Another whiny blog like post?
Time Limits
36-72 hours?
but prep
and after/ post processing...
Sales happen, but no $
so little to no joy there...
Using some of the stuff bought
previously like
PostHolidayTreats2020
might be possible,
but again energy...
Book Data
ISBN
Bound
CopyRight
Pages
index
Links
MemorialDayWeekEnd2021
SWAGRideGamify2021
BtWD2021
SailingTubers2021
RememberingMarciReed2020
AutismExPlainedTeachAbleCon2020
PeaceOfficersMemorial2020
PostHolidayTreats2020
InDependenceDayWeekend2020
PostHolidayTreats2020
MourningPages2019
SVDelos2018
AnUnEventfulWeekend2017
MemorialDayWeekend2017
MourningPages2016
MemorialDay2015
VulcanPeace2015
OldClownsHome2015
WeldingBasics2013
BadWill2011
ComeOutOfTheSewingCloset2011
HippieClownCamp2011
AVeteransSonLaughsAndSpitsAtMe2011
Memorial Pages
PatrickAsSaint
PatrickSnow
David O'Brien Memorial
JerrySpaceIdea
/GoFish
Even saw a YouTube on the 1960's
when they drained/ diverted
Niagra (sp?) Falls/ US Side
and found skeletons
like the 40/year lost on
PotomacHeritageTrail2021
other pages from here likely
relate, might be toothbrush
like activity finding them
(all?) for extra credit,
(i'm not the teacher
don't make the grading systems
nor do the grading,
not my problem,
etc) Just an idear with no
answer/ simple compare against
for grading, more essay/ take home
research project...
General form would be
search all actually mentioned
and alluded to (in this page),
and then word search (stemming?)
on some
and recall over time
like he mentioned this, that, the other,
and finding those pages,
many not in the WebPageName
and some form of updating after
the fact/ blurring the one page
into the next ones,
started talking about/ writing about,
x,y,z
Legacy2017
Legacy2019
Legacy2020
full text search and
concordance/ indexing skills
some Aspie/ Auties might be good
at, but also beware of meanings
Military
defence/ defense
no page names on a quick search
Memorial hits a lot locally
and other meanings
WeekEnd
HoliDay
(Day CamelCase becoming more common
with me, missing a space, add one
some way of learning, electronically...
easier reading/ searching
like with EmoJis?
etc/ napkin Idears...
Conclusion
Summary of experience or similar
Nothing much, no Money to really spend,
and not planned ahead with other commitments
so nothing up, and likely stay down...
Mood and activity may go together,
will see....
Going to the Cemetery
likely too crowded,
if even open again,
last i knew it wasn't,
other times better,
in general,
growing up dual households,
two holidays in one
frequent, with Broken/
Blended/ Divorced parents...
Discussion
A place for feedback on the page presented
What does substance abuse got to do with
BeHaviors?
Anxiety management with substances?
and Behavioral?
Prostitution is therefore a substance?
or is it intoxifying (sp?)
easy non legal money making
and abuse/neglect/exploitation/
predatory/ human/ sex trafficking, etc...
What links can you find for the vaguely
defined other things?
worth sharing with others
without of course cheating/
doing others homework...
What history do you have of service?
YourSelf?
Family?
Community?
...
Volunteer Cicada burials?
Anything good about it?
Bad?
How to determine?
How does "thou shall not kill"
apply or not to military service,
consciencious (sp?) objectors,
VietNam, DraftDodgers,
Canada, etc
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