SocialDistancing2020
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Introduction/Definition/etc
Kind of a misnomer, as Physical Distance
is more the common interpretation...
Six feet from one another,
no hand shaking, kissy face, etc...
Elbow butt like a new fist pump
and that's about it...
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Original Text
Previous journalling has examples
of distancing, and experienced elsewhere,
this continues that, and adds the next
dimension(s)...
Zoom
All sorts of problems with the most popular
one out there?
It's a privacy nightmare, as shares advertising data,
with FaceBook which has been in court,
and Zoom has been sued in California too,
so all sorts of problems there....
Not to use for counseling, psychotherapy,
the company owns just about everything you do on it,
from what i can tell, but people haven't figured that
out yet... Like image processing app
you put what you send on it into the public domain,
if their software figures out what it is,
it's in a template/ exemplar used to help classify/
recognize other things, and for some reason
the Trojan is similar in conferencing,
here are all those people's phone numbers,
we now have their faces, addresses from phone
numbers, even where they were at the time,
and routing information, what wifi access points,
plus content, etc...
Think for a minute free email list software,
for commercial use, you are blasting out mail
to all these people, and now the company
has collected information about the emails
you read, see interested in this,
possible sale there, but didn't click on that
one, so maybe not that, and continue to AdTech
one article mentioned create a profile on how
to sell to people, and likely sold to others,
used by other systems than what you logged
on to, some meetings are recorded,
like an automatic transcript,
and that can come back and bite you in the arse,
and others,
so an offhand comment, what others may think of
as funny, might not be outside that little group,
when/ if public, which is stored somehow
in the adverting/ profile...
Design My Own
So software is easier to make with open standards,
perhaps, as the cost of entry is lower,
and tech support may include reading the code,
which is generally freely available,
Chat
I still like chat,
I don't want my voice out there,
and sometimes can type quick enough
to be like talking,
but maybe only in the South/ country,
Joke...
It gives an exact transcript of what was said,
and many old IRC Chat software like BitchX,
EPIC etc you can log the output,
like a terminal log, script, say you do a lot
the the same stuff over and over again,
a 12Step meeting, has a meeting format,
a script can be written, and say put out
the 12 steps, with a pause between each
one, think bouncing ball on a kids tv show,
and/or a church/ read/ sing along
type thing...
How one pronounces Anonymity, and other
words people may not be used to
Jargon friendly, as may have never heard
the words spoken, Knuth, for example,
an Author of Art of Programming series,
generally considered a Computer Science
defining document, as he actually
documented Fundamental Algorithms,
how computers do a lot of stuff,
some consider a recipe, but if you've
ever cooked, it's different, but the analogy
helps some, not me, as want much more
detail, and algorithms contain enough
to get it done, or not depending upon how
well done/ documented, executed,
and what data goes in, etc...
Protocols
Text
keyboard,
autocorrect
lineBreak
CarriageReturn
WhiteSpaceHandling
Voice
AudioStream
noise cancellation?
voice only?
dogs/cats/parrots/ birds in the background, like now
early am waking to birds, chirping distracting to some,
but how one may wake up, say not used to Crows,
and little friendly birds, vs shreaking (sp?) Parrot,
but parrots c an remember stuff,
and mimic/ parrot other's voice so also recording like,
Hay AssHole, What's Hanging?
or whatever greeting you use with friends,
may not be good to overhear other times,
with company, parents, InLaws (Step Monster)
(that B_, Hussy/ Slut, Tramp, Bastard, etc)
delivery people, OKGoogle Approve Transaction,
OpenSesame, etc...
Photo
PNG
JPG
Stream
this moves stuff along and tries to keep it in sequence
Dropping packets may be necessary
that is the payload and sometimes can not handle the volume,
so stop down to some minimal,
WebCam, interesting to see faces while talking,
but some may just want an AvaTar,
and just type, as Autistic, Mute, etc
may not be a channel/ output method/
nor input method match,
and negotiating that protocol may take some effort...
Say one speaks English, another French/ Spanish,
but both are Geeks, and visual,
maybe pictures as the language
algorithms or math, symbols work ok,
pictoGrams like for Autistic and Kids,
much less Dyslexics, so UniCode, EmoJis
but some may not be comfortable with Emotions,
Logic only MrSpock, and just the Facts Mam (sp?)/Sir,
Police like protocol, no conjecture,
a formal report,
and strip out I heard someone say,
HereSay,
only observed, getting to the Scientific,
and Legal too...
Memory Problems
Recording
Text Ok, but Faces not
Face Ok, but BackGround Not,
I'm in my bathroom, listening, and
Mute, flush, fart, barf, etc...
UnMute
Initiating
May We Contact You?
(who exactly is We?
By What Means?
when,
for what?
no, i.e. i don't want:
sales calls
primary one, no agents,
head hunters, consultants, brokers, etc)
Time
Beginning and Ending
(local only? remote, time zone, DAyLight/NightTime?
meal time/ commuting, rush hour, slow speed comms?)
Scheduling
and Extends
We are going over time,
Ok with everyone?
I can Drop this part,
I've got:
lunch with the boss/wife/ kids/etc
need a bathroom/ coffee/ liquid/ warm up/ cool down/
so we move the
AgendaItem up/ down
to do what they can do first/last,
Sequence may matter,
someone volunteering to buy paper products for a party,
may need the budget approved before can spend money
and how to pay, PayPal, Cash and bring a Receipt
COD, Donated as a Gift,
BringYourOwnCleaningSupplies,
Mask, someone may be sick,
I've got Gloves, who needs 1 Pair,
What cleaning supplies are available?
Toilet and other accessories, hot water, shower,
filtered water, Hot Water, Ice?
SodaMachine, Laundry,
Dryers (towels wet for long trip home
HypoHyperThermia risks, etc
say from the beach, etc)
etc etc...
So physical distance is maybe the easier part,
Collision Detection
it's called in Games,
does this object of some coordinates/ size, weight,
etc hit something else,
Pool Cue to CueBall, to travel across felt,
(resistance? slows down x over y distance)
to Triangle of XNumberBallsSimilarToCueBall
Just LookDifferent Including Numbers, Colours, Stripes,
Bounces off bumpers?
(reduction in speed,
change direction(s)
what angles, consider spin, etc)
Random robot and other behaviors to consider,
Like Buses, stop frequently, or Express, Don't Stop
Taxis may try to pick someone up,
pull a U turn to get someone,
especially with competition,
or just pass without acknowledging,
can't see the line
Buses
Boarding from the Rear,
(less contact distancing with driver,
now just hauling trash?)
Some Buses Free
(skip payment, like heat advisory)
no touch handrails,
less contact with payment machine
would have to be cleaned/ wiped each use,
person bring their own,
contactless payment methods,
NFC Near Field Contacts(commerce Comms)
like negotiating payment methods
Cash Only, no Coins,
RFID SmartCard Pay Only
Tokens Only
Card Only (old fare cards before Smart,
audio tape like strip run through magnetic
demagnetized, got wet, lost, stolen, etc
+ less tracing/ tracking
- but discounts between lines i.e. transfers
SmartCard required more processing technology
card (electronic, comms, etc)
vs. coin processing (mechanical)
to administer
)
Bill Changer not working,
Checks only, in the Mail,
some people still use lick the envelope stuff,
is that clean?
how long to wait?
back with the Anthrax in the mail scare/
event/ it happened
but just to very few,
people wore gloves with mail,
many who deal with a lot of it, probably still do,
but person to person, are they irradiating mail still?
scanning/ and xRays kill what, like sending biologicals
through the mail/ and/or fruit flies, and customs/
importing vegetables, don't want the silk worm/ whatever
to get through, frozen and lobster from Main,
on to sending animals/ chicks, Chia Pets, and
plant seeds,
sometimes you want something to get through,
but is it hazardous:
a sample of blood, urine,
stool sample through the mail? if sick?
if not?
SeaHorses, etc
So a lot to do, and from what i can tell
a lot of it not even considered, a business
model is teleconferencing
but for personal use, the employer doesn't own
everything , not done on company time,
with company equipment, and the rights
and privacy of the parties involved
is/ should, legally may be more
Consumer Rights
and Corporate Profitering,
TOR Onion Routing
criminal and other activities,
I can attest this is not illegal activity,
we are pushing the envelope but covered
by x,y,z laws
I waive my rights to interruption,
the call can terminate at any time,
but no one else is listening in,
transactions are final,
as is,
non refundable
etc odd terms,
like online bank transfers?
VLog Examples
What if it were just one of the pairs of couples?
Would you have built the Yurt by yourself?
Male?
Female?
If you were King/Queen without the other
how would it have been different?
Wouldn't have wanted/ needed the LoveShack,
still trying to find a mate
the whole purpose was to be alone,
otherwise still looking?
Want Babies eventually ,so no Love/ Contact,
and not happening,
Don't Want Kids, so not happening
Ascetic
Platonic,
Family
Related Brothers/Sisters
this is the play house/ pool
recreation, cabin,
escape getaway to share amongst relatives,
rent out, etc and can be used by multiple people,
but cleaning between, who does that?
each renter has to clean to what standard?
shared x?
do your own laundry we come spray
(like for bedbugs, etc)
deep clean,
new carpet,
allergies
dogs
cats?
birds?
pet mice/ rat
insects, i have an ant farm
we don't use pesticides here, so expect a few ants
to visit, not Aunts, and no windows
MoonHole for example by the sea,
birds coming though,
Moths / ButterFlies, etc
Commune Living
these people know each other,
say / do just about anything together,
so low boundaries
High Boundaries
Formalities
Bowing
is it subservient,
how to signify that
at beginning, ending,
in the middle?
at a command/ Order
Yes Sir, Mam,
Yes, Chef
CopyThat,
Roger
No Chef I'm below the Squid,
sea urchins have more spine than i
JellyFish, etc
Virtual Kisses
Valentines Day, etc
Some cultures kiss on greeting,
cheeks,
babies, lovers, etc
more c lose than others,
do you have a symbolic
G/PG/R etc equivalent
UniCode handle that?
Hands on Glass
Bubble Boy like isolation
sound?
XO
Bark?
Whine?
Let Me Out/ In/ Up/ Down
got to pee / be right back
Jargon
IMNSHO
OTOH On The Other Hand
discussions/
Voting
Deliberation
Negotiation
Haggling
different than more formal
low offer
high offer
get it done
don't care the cost
pay by credit/ favors/ next one on me,
rotating host
Try different hosting services
Survey what is good/ bad/ indifferent/
Go/ NoGo
Nice to have
Concerns
Issues
etc
Modified Text
What's Missing?
What Can Be Found?
What Can Not Be Found?
How To Analyze?
Lenses
Assumptions
Time Limits
Tired to typing
not done it in a while
and getting whiney, off track
writing to myself, but worth the cleanup
an outline, start, progress, not perfection,
etc?
Book Data
There are books on this stuff,
Protocols, technical
interpersonal communications,
whole majors in Communications,
PR, Writing, Reading,
Autism, Communication Disorders
etc...
Some interesting,
and maybe useful to his,
many likely not,
commonly used,
and style of communication
across cultures?
Languages?
Uno?
Does?
Tres?
Quatro
Cinco
Seiz
Seeete
...
ISBN
Bound
CopyRight
Pages
index
Links
TheNewNormal2020
CARESNot2020
JustSayNoToConVid2020
ThereIsSomeThingWrongInWhoVille2019
TimeForAChange2020
EmailListRoadKill2018
GoodbyeCruelWorld2011
HowToSayGoodByeInRobotByNatalieStandiford2019
TooSoonToSayGoodbyeByArtBuchwald
TheBikeHouseCoop2015
TheBikeHouse
NorthByNorthEast2018
RobotFest2017
WearableCameras2015
TempleGrandin2013
TempleGrandinDVDSPOILING
TrackDays2012
3DPrinter2012
GeekingOutWithRaspberryPi2012
WeldingBasics2013
AutismLinks
and many more
/GoFish
Conclusion
Summary of experience or similar
So how to close up?
HouseKeeping?
Last month didn't close up the
AlphabetGame2018
CWords2020
...
Get around to that?
In my own sweet time?
Library books aren't sprayed/ cleaned
just left for 4 days or whatever the time
is, they say, i heard later...
Uch (sp?) no wipe down the plastic covers?...
Living Off Grid, new VLog
Apply how couples self distance
and how they stay together/ apart,
say a loveless marriage,
Divorce, Separation,
different communication styles,
growing up in a BrokenHome
how does that effect what closeness
LatchKey Kid?
Autism?
DysLexic?
DysGraphic?
Attention stuff
pictures?
but that charades like game may not work
across cultures, generations/ ages, disciplines,
move, no flip still, no hand crank the water maker,
Memory problems, transcript
Chat and interruption tolerance
hold all questions to the end,
it's not a question, volume too low, could not hear,
got nothing all silent, could not get x,y,z
one way communication
two way?
presentation
discussion
turn taking a like a game
protocol
sharing
time
control
decision making
ControlFreaks
Hacking vs
intrusion/
Hacking was a good thing,
you could create just about anything,
technical mastery,
Cracking is Breaking and Entering,
electronically, and geeks know the difference,
even among hackers there are BlackHat,
WhiteHat, GreyHat and ethical hackers...
Don't want to play if not in control
can't legally subject self to x,y,z
don't discuss topics
marriage, not ready,
divorce,
sex, age restrictions
attraction
platonic only
no kissy face icons,
emotions
crying
there's no crying in baseball, therapy,
sales,
the eBomb
FBomb
language
standards
agreed to no cussing
all cussing no nicey nice stuff here allowed
bikers bar
girls only
boys only
age restrictions
gender
orientation
get your homophobic ass out of here
plumbers cracks
on down to degrading into ranting
shout fest, at a safe distance
mediated fight
below the belt,
and precautions of someone commits
suicide/ homicide/ infanticide/ etc
other illegal acts
we must inform you that we are recording,
have to start recording
you can disconnect
and / or wait period to cool down
confer with lawyer(s),
therapist, coach, priest, etc
off camera/ mic comments
private lawyer client like privilege
no lip reading, etc
mute/ mic volume
camera off
audio off
power off dead mans' switch
say broadcasting until expired,
once asleep/ dead/ drunk/ passed out,
battery not rechargeable, no power sources,
no longer interesting/ legally required
and ethical to keep recording/ broadcasting,
no one to parse, process, listen/ care
last one(s) on channel/
room/ building, area
etc
Ship in a storm
plane going down
out of oxygen caving/ mining / shut down
blocked and certain amount of time
and end of life type stuff,
virus is quick
kills off but if not transmitting
to others then dies off?
comes around again
plague/ black death/ etc
in a coffin/ burned/ deadly stuff
not know what kills it,
and it continues, metal/ lead poisoning
originally Arctic explorers and lead in cans,
died at sea, went mad, etc
Mercury poisoning, vapours for VD
Victoria shows
now known bad for you
etc
Discussion
A place for feedback on the page presented
What protocols are you comfortable with?
What speeds of communication?
Loose interest in 110 Baud?
or have to have GigaBit
Hub and transfer?
Must it be private?
create your own,
and then know what is recording
is someone recording on the other end?
is that legal?
for what state/ country/ etc?
say a call from Maryland to Virginia
and Virginia allows recording without consent,
but MaryLand does not?
Federal?
Communications Law
given international,
if wires go across our soil/airpace,etc
may be intercepted
Must be a weak standard
OverRides?
Allowed?
Host can sit in?
Must be on Best Behavior,
we have company,
don't say anything you would not want repeated
vs, confidential,
anonymous, someone said
but i can't say whom/ don't even know,
the internet meme started somehow,
don't know, don't care, funny as hell,
offensive to others, but no one gets credit/blame
and other viral behaviors...
Compare and contrast
SocialDistancing2020
SocialSituations2020
SocialFunction2017
what does that tell you?
Others?
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